People have always trusted me remarkably fast, confiding their deepest secrets and asking for my advice. This became especially clear to me during my dating career: Men would tell me about their problems for two hours and then leave saying, "I haven't had such a great conversation in ages." At one point, I just wanted to pull a business card out of my pocket and say, "I'd love to talk again. But next time, I'll charge."

 

And at some point, this turned into a serious question: How can I turn this apparent gift into a  career?

 

But trust alone doesn't make for good coaching. In the past, my advice was often borderline intrusive, and I thought I knew what was right for others. It became increasingly clear to me that I was missing a tool that would allow me to help people find their own answers, rather than giving them my own.

 

After almost 15 years of personal development and self-exploration, experimenting with countless different approaches along the way, I finally found that tool in Connecting Link®. But everything I’ve learned along the way is part of my work today, giving us the freedom to explore whatever comes up from many different angles.

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My fundamental stance has remained the same: There is room for everything. No judgment. And then we look beneath the surface. However, today I no longer say, "Look, this is how it's done." Instead, I say, "Look, you already know what you want, feel, and need. And you also sense which path is right for you."